Surely it sounds like a strange question and one you wouldn't think you would have to ask yourself. It is a question not everyone understands when it comes to obesity. But the more and more you research and watch obese people and their immediate circle you will soon see how enablers cater to the obese person. It is a strange relationship that occurs between the obese person and the enabler. Not every obese person has an enabler around. But many do.
Being obese or over weight can make us feel isolated, sad, and have lost hope of ever being thin again. For many over weight people it's not so much being thin again as mach as it is to feel healthier again. To reclaim their health back is important to them to start living life again. To keep up with their daily lives and to be mobil and self sufficient is always a constant desire of the over weight people. No one likes to be stationary or bed ridden. Some horrible stories of morbidly obese are where they spend years in bed.
Many people out there have it so worse off than we do. And we have to be grateful for our own life and how we are still able to manage it. If you are someone reading this that is in a bad situation please seek help before it's too late. You are all worthy of weight loss and reclaiming your lives back. What's sad is the people who sit back in silent and think nothing will happen to them or that sense they don't have health problems yet they are good. But bad health can sneak up on us at a moments notice. And sometimes it's too late to change the outcome.
All from over eating and consuming the unhealthy foods. I am a believer of that food is our medication. More than ever I can tell a difference in how I feel based on what I eat. I never noticed it much when I was younger. But now that I am older I can notice it more and more. Because when I eat really healthy I feel fantastic and years younger. It's simply amazing how good eating healthy can make you feel. For those of you that have not taken the time to eat healthy for months or years yet I hope this gives you hope.
When you have enablers around you catering food to you or cooking foods that are unhealthy and feeding you foods to make you gain weight it is very hard to get out of that cycle of dependency. You can be dependent on them to help you dress, wipe your bum, shower you, or cook for you. It can become a very emotional situation and a hurtful one. And to put it to you straight like I always do. I will just say something needs to change and intervention needs to take place. Because some enablers want you to stay stuck and over weight. They like you that way because you are stuck there, and right there for them, right where they want you. They win by keeping you in one place and dependent on them. Your not going anywhere too fast and they know it!
However I have to ask. Who wants to feel stuck and dependant on others? Wouldn't it be your dream to keep your independence as long as you can? To buy your own food and shop for yourself, to cook for yourself, and to feed yourself the foods you know are healthy. When you want to go exercise or go for a drive or go shopping the last feeling you want is to be held down by weight. When I had more weight on me I felt like I had an anchor hooked to my bum. I didn't want to go places, or work in the yard. And I had a harder time keeping up with my home and businesses.
I know how hard it can be to get healthy again and to start feeling better. To get a few pounds off at first and keep your strength up as you go. To trust in someone with your deepest feelings and concerns. To give someone the honor of letting them into your life to help you. And getting truthful with yourself to overcome the weight issue. I understand that it is a sensitive and personal topic. And one that plays a role in making you feel ashamed and embarrassed. I get it! Don't forget I was once there too. And I still have a ways to go too. I am not here to judge anyone or tell your story to anyone. I am here to keep you private and protect your story. I don't feel the need to use your story as a means to boost my business. To boast about who I serve and who needs my help.
I just want you to know I am here for you. And from experience of talking to others they feel so much better talking to me about their weight than family or friends. Complete strangers love talking to me to seek help. And when you need that hope I was talking about earlier don't hesitate to reach out to me.
Now maybe you will re asses your situation and see if you have enablers. And evaluate your life now and your'er hope of moving forward into the healthier life club. You may not have the tools like bats, balls, or golf clubs to help you through the process of weight loss. But if you have a strong desire, the courage to push through the hard days, and the faith in God. You have a pretty darn good start at this.
Hope
Desire
Courage
Faith
God
You can master the world with tools like these! I wish you all the best and I hope you find the courage to reach out to me. Below I will add some links that I think you might like that can enhance your life.
I know your 're a winner in my book! Much love!
Book your call with Coach Karen My weight loss journey of losing 40 pounds has been transformational for my health. I feel so much better and I have learned to eat healthier and reap the benefits of a healthier lifestyle.
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